ARTS AND RECEIVE FEEDBACK criticized
Most holy God who endows every person, way of life is different, and equip each person with a potential multi-faceted. Friend, what comes to mind when hearing: "I want to criticize you!" When I heard the criticism, a lot of people have an uneasy feeling, as if it was going to happen assault and threatening disorders honor. He considered it as an insult that would bring down the price of him , defamed, to react, good thoughts, feelings and body prepared to defend themselves rather than enjoying the criticism itself. that's generally our attitude towards criticism. "_ but, unlike when someone men'awarkan," you want chips? " spontaneous our faces bright, happy, imagine the crunchy chips. We felt happy because chips useful for us. At least as exciting snack, or a friend to eat rice satisfactory, whereas kripiknya themselves are not in front of us. So even if only just heard the news, his countenance we become one Iebih good, feeling happy, and it has not come kripik joy is looming. ! The question is not whether the difference between criticism with chips? However, why we're different attitude ' »against these two things? Why do we like it when given chips, but hesitate when receiving criticism? 'Why chips are often sought, but the criticism we tried to run away from it? , So sebenarya, it is our perception that must be addressed. When words become part of daily criticism
that can be enjoyed, we need not fear criticism order becomes a matter of quality, a clear need science. Need ter-own art hinggga he transformed into something meaningful for the familiar.
, ENGINEERING accept criticism.
The tricks that effective criticism as a means builders glory.
1. Missed Criticism and Advice
We must position ourselves to be the one longing to be corrected, advised, as we reflect that longing always rapi.Kita must learn to love to make criticism and correction from others. We like the mirror, because the mirror makes us know which part of hair is not neat, cheek next to where the powder is too thick, or perhaps left eye which is still inhabited by tiny creature whatever they are called? Because after the mirror, we can fix that kusutj adi hair neater and chaotic appearance changed so well.
That Supposedly, the attitude of our hearts toward criticism. Would be better if this perception is always in my heart that dihujamkan Ii: Criticism Criticism is an important key to success and progress and achievements and criticism opener lifter degrees. , Criticism is a way to be better
2. Search & Ratings
The question that we convey to friends is do not ask, "nice no?, Sukseskah me?. But the flip asked / 'What was lacking that I need to improve?", "What should I improve?' Where errors need to be corrected? "What is lacking is not it? Learn to ask other people and enjoy the suggestions they made. Have friends who are honest to correct us.
* Ask the wife, husband, children, or employees, as this attitude will not diminish the glory
3. Enjoy Criticism
Prepare yourself to receive kenyatan that the correction was not always in accordance with our wishes. There are times when it's true, how salah.Kita should be grateful and be patient. Adamasanya it's true how true. In response to this we are very grateful for favors once received a correction like this.
Sometimes it also happens wrong, even though the correct way, we must remain grateful and forgiving.
And that is not impossible is it wrong and the way he was, wrong! So the best attitude is to forgive and deal with it with patience
4. Thankful
Do not throw any comment except a thank you to the people who give criticism.
Do not forget to include his name in our prayers, may Allah repay his kindness who have taken the time to help improve ourselves.
5. Self-Evaluation
Lah honest with yourself about the criticism and correction coming. This may contemplate in the liver is the answer to our prayers to ask for always shown the way that is straight.
6. Fix it Yourself Make sungguhsunggthadikanlah repair programs with self-improvement programs as gratitude for criticism coming.
7. Reply Budi Do not forget to give thanks. Can valuables, his favorite food, a letter, or minimal information to the Criticizes that we are grateful for his kindness.
ARTS criticized the 7-base essential before we criticize is that we want a change towards a better life for the people who criticized. Then there are things that should be considered are:
1. Intention Must Ikhlas
Niatkanlah that corrections submitted are sincere to help him out of his guilt, support that he is motivated to improve themselves. Do not feel taller, more powerful. because of our arrogance quality resulting sentence / word becomes low. Menggurul or degrading certainly not expected by anyone.
2. Consider the situation and conditions
People who are happy with that grieving is different kepekaannya.0rang healthy with the sick also differ received power in the face of criticism. Then the best of the situation is a state of calm, healthy, heart condition two parties are roomy, and done when the situation is familiar and friendly.
3. Note the way
The former do not emotional, do not indulge in lust and anger. Because anger is not clear what will be delivered. And at risk of misunderstanding.
No less important, we must help these oang to find the best solution, steps should be taken to correct the condition. Describe keuntunganjkalau he mmperbaiki themselves. This is so that he is motivated to make a change, let go of the bad sifatosifat and forward to improve his performance.
As a result, people who criticized not feel like I'm cornered. He seemed to fit in the space of clear information, do not hesitate and grateful that he got what he needed.
In principle, people want to be more baik.Sehingga we must ensure that this correction is for her kindness. So that eventually the person should feel very fortunate to receive criticism.
4. AVOID AVOID criticizing is do not ever criticize the front of the crowd. Because it can be interpreted as an attempt to embarrass him. So long as we are hearing criticism
concerned busier Manahan shame, hassle facing distress, more pain and even harbor resentment Dardari listen to that correction.
5. Ready For Denied We must be prepared that the correction we are not necessarily accepted. It could be because of the way is not good, or because he has a different perception of what we think is worthy corrected.
B. arm feels they deserved.
Test for us, when we want to change dirinyasesuai correction turns out that we encourage and succeed! If we feel that because of our services, our good results, it is thus actually more deserving of correction. ... Is ourselves! So do not let the success of making us forget ourselves
The sun had risen and a new day is already open again. Start your day with a full motivation. Stare at the mirror and make sure that you are ready to face everything and works today. Read the words of this life motivation for building your passion.
