COMPLAIN STOP & START THANKFUL

COMPLAIN STOP & START THANKFUL

Complaining is a very easy thing to do, and for some people it has become a habit. If you include people who like to complain then know that the habit of complaining will not make your situation better, instead of just going to drain your energy and create negative feelings that do not empower yourself.

Try to ask yourself if in case, you have two friends, who first uttered the words always positive and the second is always complaining, you will be pleased to be associated with which is it? I am sure your answer is a friend first, because basically everyone is pleased to be associated with positive people whose words build up, comfort, console.

The question is why we often complain? We complained because we were disappointed that the reality of what happened is not in line with expectations or desires. And you need to be aware that it will happen almost every day in life is the fact that often it is not in accordance with what we want.

So how to solve it real easy we just need to learn to give thanks in all circumstances we face.

For example, if you frequently complain with your work, you need to know how much the number of unemployment in Indonesia today-this? According to information nearly 60% of people in the working age do not have a job, so be grateful you still have a job and an income. Or you complain because the streets are often jammed while you are driving, for it is aware that there are millions of people which does not have a personal vehicle like you.

There is an interesting story about two mental hospital patients. The first patient was sat there muttering, "Sprott, Sprott". A visitor who asks in astonishment problems facing these people. The doctor replied, "This man was so mad after love denied by Sinta '.' The visitor nodded, but so through another cell he was surprised to see the other occupants were constantly banged his head against the wall and shout, "Sprott, Sprott." This person also had a problem with Sinta? "He asked in astonishment. The doctor then said, "Yes, it was he who eventually married Lulu ".

Believe that behind all the things we often complain there must be things to be grateful for. Psychologists say "attitude of gratitude is the healthiest emotion". An expert on stress, Hans Seyle also said, "The attitude of grateful produce more emotional energy than any other attitude in life". The interesting thing is you can always choose in any event faced what
You will complain or be grateful.

There is a story about a businessman who wakes up in a hospital and his faithful wife was with her treatment.This man said to his wife, "You know when we first married our efforts go bankrupt and you are on my side, then in the second year of our marriage possessions which I have gathered for the future of our families lost stolen but you still remain faithful to accompany me . Then again when the house we have experienced a fire thou cicil was at my side as well. Through it all You Always by my side ".
She replied, "Yes I will be forever faithful to be at your side in my husband
any circumstances. "This entrepreneur says," Now I'm lying low in the hospital, you still there
by my side ".
He replied, "Sure, I'm always willing to stay by your side".
Then the businessman said, "So now I'm starting to think that kehadiranmulah who became carriers of all this misfortune".
Amazingly there are certain people who do not understand how grateful and people like these seem to never be able to see something good and positive for only gaze fixed on a bad thing.

Began to take the time to be grateful every day. Be grateful for your work, your health, your family or anything that can be grateful for. More grateful and believe your life will be easier and luck always be with you, because you can see things that had probably escaped from your view because you are too busy complaining.

If more and more to be grateful for what we have, the more things that we have to be thankful for. Means the more we complain over

problems you are experiencing, then do not be surprised if it feels the more problems we have experienced for complaining.

Do not complain when you are facing difficulties, but please do the following. Close your eyes, take a deep breath, hold for a while and then slowly exhale from your mouth, open your eyes, smile and think that someday you will be grateful for all that is happening at the moment.

Familiarize yourself to not join in complaining when you're with friends who were complaining, try to give a positive response or none at all. Always

Positive thinking and develop an attitude of gratitude and see the changes in your life.